What is love? Where is God? The body is a temple. I believe when we clean and green what we put into our bodies, we gain spiritual benefits which change our scope and capacity for love, empathy, being fully present, better able to take responsibility and grow boundless kindness.
Conversely, when we over pollute our bodies, with alcohol, sugars, processed foods, animal fats, we are completely disrespecting ourselves. How can we come from a place of peace and be empowered to help others when we are not yet willing to put kindness first with ourselves? When we disempower ourselves from the responsibility we all have to nurture and maintain our own health and happiness, how are we then able to truly give to another being in a balanced holistic way?
While sex is utilized for procreation, it can also bring us closer or, if used incorrectly, alienate us, use us up and make us feel disrespected. Used to bring a couple together, it strengthens the bond, uplifts both parties and makes both feel wanted, needed, adored. There are people who are confused about who they love, who they want or that they want to go orgy style and mix it up. You can call that hedonism but you cannot really call that love. Love needs nurturing and attention and to be made special. When you are with different people with no faithfulness held you cannot be loving and nurturing, you are hedonistic, just out for yourself. But being hedonistic also disempowers you along the way. In sex, there is a spiritual oneness. And this is where God comes in. Don’t believe in God? Have no spiritual affinity whatsoever? Perhaps you are on the wrong blog, but stay with me a moment. What about the order in the chaos when you look at how this world works? I am not talking about what men have done to the planet, but actually how the world works, how the animals, the fish, the seas, the seasons, how everything beautifully ties together. How could all this become, with such diversity, majesty and beauty out of complete and utter chaos? I believe that it couldn’t any other way but to have been created by someone who wanted to make all this happen. Love is many nuances, vibe and responsibility. Responsibility is feeding the cat because he’s hungry and I do love him but I may not really feel like getting up and opening a tin for him. I do it for love. I clean the house, wash the dog, fix dinner, earn a living, all for love. I stay faithful to my husband because I love him and not for any other reason.
Love is many nuances, vibe and responsibility. Responsibility is feeding the cat because he’s hungry and I do love him but I may not really feel like getting up and opening a tin for him. I do it for love. I clean the house, wash the dog, fix dinner, earn a living, all for love. I stay faithful to my husband because I love him and not for any other reason.
Straying is the highest of insults anyone could ever do to another. The second highest is lying about it. Some people say they are in an open relationship etc, but the fact is when someone won’t be faithful to you, it really means they don’t care enough about you, they are merely using you for their own gain. Plain, simple. They don’t have enough of a jot of care about you that extends beyond themselves and their own needs. It’s a disorder, an emotional imbalance, a lack of control due to failure to exercise power over one’s own faculties. There are always excuses. And that dovetails into respect. If you don’t respect yourself, who will? Someone may, but it really begins with you. If you are in a situation which is usury, just sex, not truly love, not balanced, not working, then get out of it. There will always be complications. Usually when I hear ‘ Well, there are complications’ it means money or lack of self-respect. Someone is staying for the monetary support or someone is a doormat. Neither are truly good and loving reasons to remain in something that is a failure.
Sometimes life takes us in weird directions, places we thought we’d never go and robs us of peace. When you think about your partner, does he or she bring you closer or farther away from peace? We are all imperfect beings. We are here, primarily to learn how to responsibly, truly and more perfectly love each other. This is not easy, but it absolutely is doable.
And if you are single and searching, take your time. There is no need to rush into the unknown before at least some modicum of time has been spent so that you have a better idea of what you are getting into.
We are responsible for our own life and are also our brothers keeper, whether we like the idea of that or not. Clint Eastwood said ‘A man has got to know his limitations’ and I adore that line. We need to understand ourselves enough to have a full grasp of our limitations so that we minimize causing upset in others lives due to our intentions being less than honest, less than pure. When we know ourselves, we can speak our truth, whatever that is. Truth changes just as our limitations do, provided we do our own self-work and grow, keep moving forward as we age rather than degenerate into toddlers. We are always moving, therefore, we are always, each day, going the one way or the other. Which way do you want to go? Which way brings you closer to peace and causes least harm?
Whatever you have done and wherever you have failed, know that we all fail to some degree and that each day brings with it an opportunity to go and do better. Be blessed with actions that
Be blessed with actions that honor your temple today.
Check out this book to help you on your journey: My Body Is A Temple by Christina Sell